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The wedding of Lucy and Steven

We are delighted to be finally posting about our incredibly busy summer this year.  Over the next few weeks we’ll be posting on some of our wedding work, which we hope you enjoy! We certainly love looking back on all the detail that was so long in the planning and gone in a flash!

First up is the wedding of Lucy and Steven which took place at the hidden gem that is Warren House in Kingston Upon Thames, Surrey.

Warren House

Lucy and Steven were self-confessed wedding veterans who felt  themselves older than the average (they don’t look it though) and therefore seeking a day that was very “them” with a lack of fluff and the unnecessary they focused on what mattered and we think we all pulled off a stylish, meaningful and above all joyful celebration.

Lucy got ready at home with her two  young children in toe (brave lady) and still managed to arrive looking sensational. She had set her heart on a “bit of cheese” by way of  a classic white limo and that’s what she had.

Lucy and Limo

As you can see Lucy decided to turn tradition on its head and she wore a stunning platinum silk gown by Australian designer Mariana Hardwick  whilst her bridesmaids wore white!

Bridesmaids in white

Platinum silver was tied with whites and cool blues all the way through the wedding design and the gathered brooch detail on Lucy’s dress was copied in the cake detailing. Lucy loves eucalyptus so that was cleverly incorporated with the most stunning white orchids. The chandelier motif on the wedding stationery and piping on the cake was inspired by the beautiful chandeliers and glimmering mirrors in the ballroom where the wedding vows were exchanged.  

The day included lots of musical talent and entertainment including string sensation Asteria Strings, close-up magic by Dan Alexander, caricatures by Soozi and the most moving guitar and vocal solo by the groom’s daughter, Jenny.  The stylish feel continued in the “conference room” which was transformed into virtual marquee created for the evening party complete with cool blue uplighting, white bench and silver poseur table seating.  Much fun was had as the guests partied into the night.  

 Lucy and Steven

Lucy and her best friends

Table centres

Dining Room

Flowers

Napkin and menu

Wedding cake

Dover Street Table

Uplit in blue

The platinum dress and bouquet

Credits:

Photos: Annie Armitage

Wedding cake: Zoe Clark Cakes

Stationery:  Emily&Jo

Flowers:  Hybrid Flowers

Limousine: Carey

Production: draping, lighting and furniture: More Production

A culinary treat

How often do you have a restaurant meal but not really remember what you’ve eaten or much about your night out?

I find it’s very rarely that hubby and I feel 100% happy with our dining experience (years in the hospitality and events business do that to you!) but when we do, we are blown away and tell everyone which is why I wanted to write to you about this fantastic fish restaurant we stumbled upon earlier this year.

OK, it’s not wedding-related at all but it’s about service and attention to detail and that is wedding-related and I like to think I can spot it a mile off!  Of course Verveine Fishmarket Restaurant  is also an ideal spot for any kind of special celebration or proposal so there is a vague link.  

 

Verveine

So what was so special?

The team – the owner team greet you from the initial booking to the final “coats-on and wave off” – Stacey is front of house and David heads up the kitchen and you see both of them in action – they are attentive to the last, friendly with time for chat, highly knowledgeable and just all round inspirational people.

The decor – simple, clean lines and plenty of natural light from the floor to ceiling glass windows and skylights.  More than a few clever hints of blue which of course works well with its waterside setting in the lovely Milford-on-Sea, and a very effective “wave” lighting effect on the central wall.

The details – Menus – hubby had a black menu card, I had white and with napkins we were reversed (a nice touch), water glasses were a lovely strong blue, bread and butter presented on slate platters, just before departure we were presented with a cute pair of mini milk bottles with straws filled with a deliciously alcoholic chocolate milkshake!

The food  – well I confess I actually don’t really love fish so for me it had to be special to get my attention – I loved the way that you could choose your fish of the day but with 4 different garnishes to suit – from a French twist with Provencale, some Indian spice from Bombay,  an Italian injection with Reggiano to a more simple classic Grill. Starters and desserts were equally inspirational and delicious.  Make your own mind up by having a peak at the menu here

Seafood and eat it of course!

Seafood and eat it of course!

The wines – I like a good wine but do get annoyed with the outrageous mark-up sometimes. I was delighted to see some sensibly priced options including a great New Zealand Sauvignon Blanc (went down very well), some lovely rosé (didn’t get to try that!)  and great to see good Prosecco on the list as a more than acceptable alternative to champagne.

And the clever thing is that this restaurant also doubles up as a fishmongers so visitors can have their fish and cook it. Shame we don’t live closer or we would most definitely be regular visitors.  I do love to see a new business really going for it, setting standards and delivering genuinely excellent service at a fair price and long may it continue for Stacey, David and the team.

The restaurant is based in Milford-on-Sea on the edge of the New Forest in Hampshire.

A wedding in the press

We were delighted to have one of our summer 2009 weddings featured in the wedding press recently.

Do take a look at the autumn issue of  Wedding Venues & Services magazine for the fantastic ‘party time’ coverage of Sally and Dominic’s wedding weekend – see pages 152 and 153 and also featured on our previous blog post back in August 2009.

WV&S magazine

Civil partnership of David and Martin

We had the most wonderful email arrive recently which has prompted this post and brought a huge smile to our faces.

‘Hi, it’s our anniversary today! A year. I’ve just watched our video again and felt compelled to mail you to say thank you again! Even after a year! You did such a beautiful job and made everything seamless and all so easy!

Much love, David & Martin x

It’s so lovely to be remembered after time has passed and what a day it was.

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David and Martin are both involved in the musicial theatre world in different ways and the day reflected this at every turn. The order of service took the form of a theatre programme and introduced the most emotional and stunning ceremony complete with performances from friends who are regular West End musical professionals.

 

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Here are the lovely team of super elegant usherettes, each close friends of the couple.

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The table settings were simple white and silver and incredibly stylish with the use of the most realistic “fake” flowers ever.

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And the party really started as the light faded. The Conservatory at Syon Park was lit beautifully and the grooms performed their first dance in true musical theatre style incorporating a first dance and song from ‘La Cage aux Folles’. An unforgettable day and one we were delighted to play a small part in.

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 Credits:

Venue:  Syon Park

Lighting and production: Yes Events

Catering: Food Show

Cake on a stick!

We always love a new product here at Bespoke and we were pleased to come across Pop Bakery via our friends at Daily Candy earlier in the year.

Just in time for wedding season, we’ve been going a bit Pop mad this summer. If you like chocolate and you like lollipops and most importantly you like cake, then you will probably like everything about Pop Bakery.

Here are photos of some of their lovely products, bespoke of course!  We wish you well Clare and the team.

pop hearts

 pop bakery 2

Your song

Are you still unsure on the choice of your first dance? Here is a quick top ten of 2010 favourites so far from one of our preferred DJs’,  the talented Beach Mercer of  Sliding Vinyl

 first dance

  1. Leona Lewis “A Moment Like This”
  2. Florence & The Machine “U Got The Love”
  3. Nat King Cole “Let There Be Love”
  4. Michael Buble “Save The Last Dance For Me”
  5. Snow Patrol “Chasing Cars”
  6. DJ Sammy “Heaven”
  7. Al Green “Let’s Stay Together”
  8. Ben E King “ Stand By Me”
  9. Dean Martin “That’s Amore”
  10. Nat King Cole “L-O-V-E”

 And if you’re still uninspired, just go for something which means something to you and will stand the test of time!

Photo Credit: Lloyd Dobbie

Wedding of Kelly and Jason

Well, it’s been quite a summer and we’re just about coming up for air! We have been working away on lots of  wonderful and unique weddings and I’m excited that we’ll be able to show you some of our work over the coming weeks and months.

Here is a sneak preview of one of our lovely July weddings which took place down in Wiltshire at the stunning Whatley Manor.

The Wedding of Kelly and Jason

The couple, Kelly and  Jason, chose a very clean and naturally elegant style to their wedding with a champagne and wine theme running throughout; we paid lots of attention to detail particularly with their highly unusual vine trellis seating plan and we loved the stylish chill out marquee we designed especially for the evening revelry.  Here is a link to the blog of talented photographer, Helen Maybanks which shows some more of the day and the guests enjoying themselves. Thank you Helen. We look forward to showing more of the little details in a future post.

Wedding of Amanda and Merrill

It seems bizarre to be looking at wintry images now that the summer season is underway but here is one last post on this lovely winter wedding and some of the finer details.

family corner

table frames

napkins

cake up close

cake

Suppliers:

Linen : Just 4 Linen

Flowers: Hybrid Flowers

Venue: Orangery at Blenheim Palace

Laser cut stationery: Chartula Studio

Photos: White Gold Weddings

Cup cakes: supplied by friend of bride

Canvases for family photo corner: Photobloc

Wooden easels: Eventful Hire

Smilers

If you’re looking for an inexpensive but cute little personal touch to your wedding invites, then we think we’ve got just the thing.  We love these personalised stamps called ‘Smilers’ available from Royal Mail. For little more than the cost of a regular first class stamp, you get an image of your choice on your stamp which can be used for your wedding invitations and any other wedding correspondance you might be doing. The ‘love’ stamp below naturally lends itself to weddings but perhaps an engagement photo of the two of you is really fun?

small_love

Have a look here for info on the Smilers

The impact of stationery

I came across a lovely company recently who got in touch because we live closeby to introduce their wonderful laser cut stationery. As a fan of laser cut products anyway (it always makes a huge impact which it plips on the doormat of your guests), I was delighted to see their range.  

Cutture specialise in bespoke designs and they are forever coming up with new concepts and working with clients on unique products that involve using their laser cutting machine.

Here are just a few examples that they have produced recently.  I particularly like the perspex menu card for a stylish and contemporary table setting in say a trendy City venue. I’ve seen a few perspex cut products in the past and always been a bit unconvinced but with the right design and expert cutting, they really are show-stoppers!

Bird themed wedding invite

Bird themed wedding invite

 

Butterfly themed wedding invite

Butterfly themed wedding invite

 
Perspex menu

Perspex menu

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